The most adaptable sex toys are Dildos. A dildo, unlike a vibrator, does not move on its own. One of the joys of dildos is that they appear in types and sizes that no person can, so they can give your sex life a whole new level (literally).
This article will show you how to handle a dildo and how to make the most of your toy.
- Be certain you’re at ease.
Turn yourself on normally before using your dildo for the very first time (regardless of whether that’s with some decent LGBT porn or free erotic literature). It’s critical to get ‘in the mood,’ since if you’re nervous or distracted, penetration will be more challenging – and less satisfying.
- Use lube
With any form of sex toy insertion, lubricant is required, and this is especially true for dildos. Water-based lubricants are suitable for practically everyone in almost any circumstance. As the anus does not naturally moisten like the vagina, silicone-based lubricants remain longer and are better for anal penetration. However, if your dildo is made of silicone, you should avoid using silicone-based lubrication and instead use water-based lubricant. Before you use the toy, make sure it’s lubricated. Also, keep in mind that if you’re using the dildo for anal penetration, you’ll probably need to replenish the lubrication at some point.
- Begin slowly
Examine how the dildo feels when rubbed on the exterior of your body before inserting it. Massage and trigger external genitalia like the vulva, labia, and anus with it. You’re just teasing yourself here as you work your way up to the penetration. Start slowly pushing the dildo in and out once you’ve started penetrating yourself with it, and react and adjust to how it feels.
- Set a pattern
After you’ve gotten the hang of manipulating the dildo, try experimenting with other rhythms and speeds. Observe the distinction between a gradual, steady movement and one that is quick and unpredictable. Find out what works best for you and then share that information with your partner.
- Examine depth and angles
Deep penetration can be exhilarating or excruciating. It is able to attain your cervix with the end of a lengthy toy, albeit this can be painful. Stop what you’re doing if you’re in pain, and then carefully resume after a pause. Holding the dildo by the shaft rather than the base allows you to change the length. Experimenting with different insertion angles might also assist stimulate your G-spot. Furthermore, some dildos are particularly bent to locate your G-spot on your behalf!
- Take it a step further
To take sexual pleasure to the next level, combine a dildo with a bullet, rabbit, or wand vibrator. If it’s particularly difficult, you can always enlist the assistance of a partner. Concurrent penetration and clitoral stimulation could be quite pleasurable and can result in a powerful mixed orgasm.
Picking the right dildo
Dildos would only do whatever you make them to, so choosing the perfect one is crucial. If you get something that is too huge, it will simply not work. If you’re not sure what size you need, consider the various penetration tools you’ve used (fingers, penises, vibrators, etc.) and choose a dildo that fits well.